Sunday, January 29, 2012

warm fuzzies.

i know, i know...ridiculous. i was in a hurry...hence the not so good "i love you" sign. but it's the thought that counts, right? i have always loved the idea of a little surprise note in a lunchbox. you know...some nice warm fuzzies to fill you up while you're away from home. come on...it's cute. i've been doing it sporadically this year for brampton. i hope he'll remember these. i try to be creative...if anything i hope it at least brings a smile to his face. if you have been following our blog, you'll know that brampton was diagnosed with a speech delay back in the day. he seriously didn't speak a word. so we signed. lots and lots of cute little brampton signing. that's how he communicated until the age of three when he started speaking in paragraphs! ha. so sign language is kind of our little thing. anyway, back to this particular note...before school i showed him the picture before placing it in his lunchbox. i asked him what it meant and he did his cute little bashful smile. he said mom loves me and i love mom. i knew it had melted his heart and sent warm fuzzies his way and i hoped he would feel my love as he looked at it later that day. well...i'm pretty sure all those warm fuzzies went out the window at lunch time b/c brampton came home and told me that everyone laughed at it. i guess they crinkled it into a ball and were playing keep away. brampton was really upset about it all. really?? already...in kindergarten they make fun of each other for things such as this?? come on. the last thing i wanted was for him to get made fun of. the thought really just makes me sick.

8 comments:

Cassidy said...

That's terrible! the pressure. Well I think its a cute idea, and he thought it was too!

lyndsey said...

um, this story makes me want to cry. how SAD!! i'm not going to be able to handle it when kids hurt my kids' feelings. especially over something so ADORABLE like a love note from his mommy!! seriously breaks my heart.

The Mid Life Guru said...

Don't get discouraged by litle kids who are just jealous because they don't get notes in their lunch boxes. Keep it up. Your kids will really like the notes you leave in their desk at Open House!!!

JSL, ABE&H said...

Por kiddo. Hopefully he wont take it to heart. At least he knows what it means. I love those types of things.
I put one in abbys lunch before and she just kept asking my WHY did I put it in there...

Sarah said...

that is SAD!!! seriously?? Kathryn hasn't dealt with that... or at least hasn't told me if she has... could it be a boy thing? Either way, that breaks my heart. :(

andi said...

Ohhh, that hurts my heart! Why do sweet little babies have to grow up into stinky kids? Those kids would be nicer if their moms put sweet notes in their lunchboxes. (You keep doing it- he'll remember and love you for it!)

Lacey said...

seriously, tears coming down my face!!! My heart is breaking, I HATE those stories. I can't stand it when kids get their hearts broken or their feelings hurt, it makes my heart break!! I agree with everyone else, keep doing it!

Betty Ashley said...

So, how ironic that I read a note to a kindergartner today. His neighbor even asked, "Why is there a heart?" I told him, "it is because his mommy loves him."
I'm sorry I'm not his teacher because I would have set them straight! I would helped them realize that just because They Wish they had warm fuzzy notes from their parents doesn't mean that can pick on the lucky dude that Does!
Keep 'em coming mom, because I Loved my notes from my mom! If anyone gave me grief I would tell them, "it is something special just for me" :)